Pride, Pleasure and the Power of Being Yourself
Pride Month is a celebration of authenticity. It is about the courage to be fully yourself, to love openly, and to inhabit your body without apology. At Upstate Mary, we...





What is intimacy oil and how do I use it?
Apply a lot or a little, it depends on you. We find that the CBD really kicks in about 5-10 minutes after applying, but you will enjoy the glide and slide right away, so dive in!
This all-natural, oil-based lubricant was formulated to enhance pleasure, ease penetration and provide lubrication anywhere you like, with the soothing, activating effects of full spectrum CBD in organic MCT coconut oil.
With 400mg of CBD per bottle, everyone can enjoy the benefits of added moisture and glide.
Can men use CBD-infused Intimacy Oil too?
Absolutely! However, the formulas for our intimacy product line were created with the vagina and vulva in mind.
Now, when it comes to the guys, it's worth mentioning that the skin on the penis behaves a bit differently. It's not as absorbent, especially if you're uncircumcised. So, when you use our products, the primary benefit you'll feel is that they'll keep things nice and moisturized down there, reducing any discomfort from friction.
While some guys have told us they've had an extra exciting time on their own using our products, most folks find that the real magic happens when they share the experience with their partner. It's all about enhancing the pleasure together.
Are your products free of toxins and chemicals?
Yes indeed! We test every ingredient and every batch of our products for purity, potency and the presence of harmful substances. Certificates of Analysis (COAs) for all products and batches are available here.
When do your products expire?
We set a best-by date of 18 months from the date of manufacture for our products. This date can usually be found on the packaging or bottles.
If you cannot find a best-by date on your product(s), please contact us at: hello@upstatemary.com and we will be happy to assist you!
Are your intimacy products safe for oral sex?
The answer is simple, YES!
All of our Intimacy products are made with organic, all-natural and food-grade ingredients. While our products were not created for oral consumption specifically, they can be an excellent addition to oral sex.
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