Let us take you (and your partner) to new heights

Named after some of our favorite high peaks in the Catskill Mountains, our intimacy oils and melts are made with 100% all-natural and organic plant-based extracts to nurture your body while delivering comfort and pleasure during sexy time.

Upstate Mary avoids complex ingredients and unnecessary additives to deliver our Farm to Bedroom™ formulas where they're needed most--in the bedroom. Clean ingredients and sustainable packaging reduce our carbon footprint. Everything in our current line-up uses clean, ethically-sourced ingredients—plus packaging that is either recyclable or compostable. We strive for continuous innovation and a positive environmental impact.

Female grown. Women owned. Farm to Bedroom™

Our sustainable and all-natural formulas make for happy bodies, which in turn make for better, more intimate sex. Because let's face it, ain't nobody got time for lukewarm lovin'.

Guarantees

  • Organic + Natural

    100% Plant-based + Organic. Never tested on animals. No synthetic ingredients.

  • Lab Testing

    We guarantee the purity + potency of every batch through independent lab testing.

  • Made in NY

    Hemp is sustainably grown and organic + our products are made in NY.
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FAQs

What is CBD-infused Intimacy Oil and how do I use it?

Apply desired amount, it really depends on you. We find that the CBD really kicks in about 5-10 minutes after applying, but you will enjoy the glide and slide right away, so dive in! 

This all-natural, oil-based lubricant was formulated to enhance pleasure, ease penetration and provide lubrication anywhere you like, with the soothing, activating effects of full spectrum CBD in organic MCT coconut oil, along with our proprietary blend of all-natural and organic botanicals.

With 400mg of CBD per bottle, everyone can enjoy the benefits of added moisture and glide.

What is your return policy?

We're dedicated to your wellness, pleasure and satisfaction. Our products are tested for quality and all shipments are carefully inspected prior to leaving our fulfillment center.

For hygiene reasons, we do not offer exchanges, returns or refunds at this time.

If the product(s) arrives damaged, please contact us within 48 hours of receipt at hello@upstatemary.com with your order number and clear photo of the damaged product(s). After review, you will be issued a refund and/or replacement, as deemed appropriate.

If you have purchased the product(s) from a retail partner, please contact the appropriate retailer for their return + exchange policy.

All Upstate Mary items are FINAL SALE! 
Can I cancel or modify my order?

Once you complete your transaction and receive your order confirmation via email, our fulfillment team starts to prepare your order.

While we’re unable to make changes after an order has been placed, you can contact us right away at: hello@upstatemary.com to see if we are able to cancel items from your order before they begin processing.

If we are unable to cancel your order and it ships, once you have received your order, you may return or exchange any eligible items.
Can I travel with your products?

Yes! CBD is legal in all 50 states and US territories. We've never had a problem traveling with any of our CBD-infused intimacy oils and melts. International regulations can vary however, so we recommend checking the local laws of the country where traveling.
Do your products contain THC?

Our intimacy products with CBD-only are made with full spectrum hemp extract (not THC). While we cannot guarantee any outcome of drug test results, it is unlikely that you would test positive for anything but CBD after using our products.

We use full spectrum CBD, so there may be trace amounts of THC present, but below the legal limit of 0.3% for CBD products.

You can find all the final product test results here.
What are your shipping costs?

We ship our products to all US States.

Currently, we ship packages with USPS First Class Mail, as well as UPS (UPS determined by fulfillment center at time of packaging).

Domestic shipping within the contiguous U.S. qualifies for either economy or standard shipping. ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Economy Shipping:

  • FREE shipping for all orders over $100
  • $6 flat shipping fee on all orders under $100
  • The average transit time is 5-8 business days
  • We do not guarantee shipping times for Economy Shipping

Standard Shipping:

  • Customer pays for standard shipping based on the weight of the package
  • The average transit time is 3-4 business days
  • We do not guarantee shipping times for Standard Shipping

Sorry, we do NOT offer international shipping at this time.

Need the products sooner, contact us at hello@upstatemary.com and we will do our best to accommodate you.