• Let's talk about SEX 

    Sexual health is physical and mental well-being. Bodies change and sex hurts sometimes. Low libido, vaginal dryness, pain and discomfort during sex are real problems. Say goodbye to the cascade of anxiety, frustration and low self-esteem. Pleasure is your birthright. You deserve clean, uncomplicated, organic + plant-based lubrication.

    It’s time, my darling. It’s not just about reaching the summit of orgasm, although we are here for that too!

    At Upstate Mary, we want to empower people to reclaim their intimacy and enjoy life-changing sex–no matter their age or stage in life!

  • Keep it simple

    CBD can provide anti-inflammatory and pain-relieving benefits and help manage many different conditions, including pain + anxiety.

    At Upstate Mary, we’re all about plant-powered wellness.

    Our CBD-infused intimacy products not only help you get in the mood, but also help you stay in the mood. Intimacy oils and melts can help you experience increased lubrication + stimulation and heightened arousal. We believe that everyone deserves mind-blowing orgasms! Our Farm to Bedroom™ formulas combine full spectrum CBD with our unique blend of plant-based extracts to prime the body for pleasure by both awakening and relaxing the body.

    That’s why we are committed to creating products that are natural, vegan and free of any harsh chemicals. It's that simple.

Welcome to Upstate Mary

We’re here to make intimacy better for every body. 

Why? Sex is self-care. It’s rejuvenating. It makes you feel alive. We all deserve sexual pleasure.

That’s where our collection of CBD-infused intimacy essentials comes in, made to provide you connection, comfort and confidence–without compromise. 

We Keep It Simple

Our all-natural, organic, uncomplicated, Farm to Bedroom™ formulas are made from the good stuff, with CBD sourced from our New York farm partner. We’re picky about what we put in our products and know you only deserve the best. 

We Adore CBD

Our wonder ingredient, single-origin full spectrum CBD helps ease pain, increases blood flow, and promotes relaxation–an excellent recipe for better sex. You’ll find it in every one of our lubricants. 

We Get You 

Our founders Melissa and Michelle have experienced sexual obstacles, from surviving breast cancer to PCOS and post-birth pain. They understand what it’s like to experience low libido, vaginal dryness, discomfort and are here to help. 

So let’s reclaim your confidence, your pleasure, your oh-so-sexy self. You deserve it!

Don’t know where to start? Try this handy guide.

Friday Arousal Oil with CBD
$48.00
$48.00
Vibe
$69.00
$69.00