• Let's talk about SEX 

    Bodies change and sex hurts sometimes. Low libido, vaginal dryness, pain and discomfort during sex are real problems. Many of us are quietly suffering which can lead to a cascade of anxiety, frustration and low self-esteem. 

    At Upstate Mary, we know that pleasure is your birthright and we want to help you bring that sexy back! 

    It’s time, my darling. It’s not just about reaching the summit of orgasm, although we are here for that too! We are taking a stand for your connection, comfort and confidence. At Upstate Mary, we want to empower people to reclaim their intimacy and enjoy life-changing sex.

  • If you don't use it, you lose it

    When you think of sexy time, it shouldn't be loaded with anxiety and trepidation. We know that pleasure begets more pleasure and want you to find that sweet spot between playfulness and prowess.

  • Keep it simple

    CBD is well known for reducing pain and relieving tension. Our CBD-infused intimacy products not only help you get in the mood, but also help you stay in the mood.  Intimacy oils and melts can help you experience increased lubrication and heightened arousal. We believe that everyone deserves mind-blowing orgasms!

    Our Farm to Bedroom™ formulas combine full spectrum CBD sourced from a certified organic farm with our unique blend of plant-based extracts to prime the body for pleasure by both awakening and relaxing the body.

    Our proprietary blend of all-natural and organic ingredients aim to nourish and replenish your most intimate areas. That’s why we are committed to creating products that are natural, vegan, and free of any harsh chemicals. It's that simple.

A Letter from Upstate Mary

Hey there, pleasure seekers! 

Welcome to Upstate Mary, where we've got more than just CBD-infused intimacy products—oh yes, we're all about empowering you to reclaim your sexy confidence, no matter your age or stage of life! Our journey began amidst the breathtaking landscape of the Catskill Mountains, where two adventurous besties in their 20s hiked around Woodstock and the high peaks of the Catskills, chatting about everything from relationships to work struggles and all of life's in-between moments.

Let's meet the superheroes behind Upstate Mary's awesomeness! First up is Michelle, our sustainability champion extraordinaire. She brings her passion for saving the planet from her recycling industry background and infuses it into everything we do at Upstate Mary. Then there's Melissa, the incredible warrior who faced an unexpected breast cancer diagnosis in 2014. Instead of letting it drag her down, she transformed her pain into purpose, becoming a mentor and coach, helping women rediscover their sexy confidence and seize life after battling cancer.

Our paths crossed for a much bigger cause than we ever imagined. We realized how childbirth, PCOS, cancer, aging and stress can play havoc with hormones, libido and self-esteem. Additionally, hearing stories of people settling for a lackluster "new normal" only fueled our fiery determination to guide others back to feeling confident and sexy, both inside and outside the bedroom.

We've teamed up with a women-owned, organic farm in upstate New York and we've created our products using single-origin, full spectrum CBD. We put our products through hardcore third-party lab testing, ensuring the right dose of cannabinoids and absolutely zero heavy metals, pesticides, or yucky residual solvents.

At Upstate Mary, we take serious pride in using 100% all-natural and organic ingredients in all of our intimacy formulas. We believe in keeping things pure and simple, which allows us to create unique recipes with plant-based extracts that nurture your body and ignite the flames of pleasure during sex. And guess what? We're eco-warriors too! Our packaging is recyclable, compostable or made from recyclable materials, because we're all about keeping Mama Earth happy!

Our Farm to Bedroom™ product line is designed to help you dive deep and connect with yourself and your partner on a whole new level. And what sets us apart from the rest? We're all about quality and pleasure, baby! We totally believe in our products and we use them too because we're all about practicing what we preach.

Upstate Mary is here to remind you that your sexy confidence knows no limits. So let's get this party started—indulge in the pleasure you deserve, nourish your body and honor our amazing planet along the way. So, are you in? We sure hope so.

High peaks + higher pleasure,

Michelle and Melissa XO