Farm to Bedroom™

Female Grown. Women Owned.

Slide Intimacy Oil with CBD

Slide to your summit

Friday Arousal Oil with CBD

Make Every Day Friday

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Get wild with plants

At Upstate Mary, we believe in the power of plants. We don't mess around when it comes to pleasure. That’s why we take serious pride in crafting our products with 100% all-natural and organic ingredients. Say goodbye to weird fragrances or ingredients with names you can't pronounce. Treat yourself to products that nourish the body and awaken the senses while boosting arousal and lubrication during your most intimate moments.

  • MCT COCONUT OIL

    A natural moisturizer that has been used for centuries. It is also prized for its antimicrobial and antibacterial properties.

  • FULL SPECTRUM HEMP CBD

    A non-psychoactive compound found in cannabis that has been shown to reduce inflammation, tension and pain. Sexual benefits may include heightened arousal and increased lubrication.

  • JOJOBA OIL

    A soothing natural moisturizer that is anti-inflammatory and can improve blood circulation.

  • CACAO ABSOLUTE

    Derived from the cacao bean, with a rich chocolaty aroma and aphrodisiac properties.

  • Why CBD Lube?

    Full spectrum CBD-infused oils and melts applied to your intimate areas can increase blood flow, promote pelvic relaxation and decrease inflammation + discomfort during sex. Our intimacy collection can help address a range of needs from tackling pelvic floor pain + painful penetration to boosting blood flow + daily lubrication to postpartum TLC. Our CBD-infused oils and melts are intimacy game-changers. They aren't just a one-night stand. Nope, they're versatile companions that can be used as your daily personal moisturizer + pleasure enhancer for solo or partnered-play.

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  • Farm to Bedroom™

    Upstate Mary understands the importance of knowing where your CBD comes from and how it’s been grown. That's why we've proudly partnered with a women-owned, organic + multigenerational farm in upstate New York to source the highest quality single-origin, full spectrum CBD for our intimacy product line.

  • WE GIVE BACK

    In the United States, someone dies from breast cancer every 14 minutes. This number has not decreased significantly in nearly 40 years despite a huge movement to raise awareness and funds for breast cancer research. Upstate Mary goes beyond pleasure-it's also rooted in personal experiences. As a breast cancer survivor + mom, our Co-Founder understands the challenges of hormonal changes and sexual dysfunction. We're passionate about helping others to rediscover pleasure and connection, whether alone or with a partner. Upstate Mary donates to the National Breast Cancer Foundation with every purchase.

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  • SUSTAINABILITY

    Upstate Mary supports One Tree Planted as part of our commitment to sustainability. One Tree Planted is a non-profit organization focused on global reforestation. Together we can restore forests, create habitat for biodiversity and make a positive social impact around the world. Upstate Mary donates to One Tree Planted with every purchase. One tree planted with every dollar donated. 

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