WILDCAT FAQ: Your Top Questions, Answered. We just announced a major launch: WILDCAT, our very first THC-infused sex oil, has officially arrived. As expected, this groundbreaking product has sparked curiosity and excitement — and a lot of great questions.
Whether you’re canna-curious, canna-confident, or looking for ways to feel more connected in your body and in your relationships, we’re here to answer your most frequently asked questions about WILDCAT.
Because when it comes to pleasure, you deserve clarity, confidence, and a product that truly supports your whole body — and whole self.
Why did you make WILDCAT?
A THC-infused lubricant has been on our wishlist for years. Why? Because we believe in the science of pleasure, not just the vibe.
Cannabis — especially THC and CBD — has been shown to:
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Increase blood flow to intimate areas
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Reduce pain and inflammation
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Support muscle relaxation
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Calm the nervous system
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Enhance sensation and arousal
In one recent study published in Sexual Medicine, cannabis use was positively associated with increased sexual desire, arousal, and satisfaction — particularly in women. Another study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that regular cannabis users reported more frequent and pleasurable orgasms.
Our founders created WILDCAT because we believe cannabis can be a healing tool and a pleasure amplifier. And everyone deserves more ease, more connection, and more joy — especially in the bedroom.
Does using WILDCAT get you high?
Not exactly. Topically applied THC works locally, not systemically. That means it interacts with the cannabinoid receptors in the skin and mucosal tissue — particularly CB1 and CB2 receptors — but typically doesn’t cross into the bloodstream in high enough concentrations to create a psychoactive “head high.”
Instead, most users report a “body high” — a sense of warmth, relaxation, and calm in the pelvic region. That soothing effect can relieve tension and reduce performance anxiety, helping you stay present and more connected to sensation.
Does WILDCAT really make sex better?
Yes. And there’s science to back that up.
THC and CBD both interact with your endocannabinoid system (ECS) — a regulatory network in the body that helps modulate stress, inflammation, pain, mood, and pleasure. The ECS plays a big role in sexual function, and cannabinoid receptors are found throughout your reproductive tissues.
Here’s what that means for your sex life:
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Increased circulation = more sensitivity and lubrication
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Reduced inflammation = less pain and discomfort
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Relaxed smooth muscle = less tension and tightness
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Anxiolytic effects = reduced anxiety and performance pressure
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Improved orgasm quality = better muscle contractions and release
All of this creates ideal conditions for deeper, more pleasurable intimacy. Whether solo or partnered, WILDCAT helps you drop into your body and stay there.
Sex is painful for me because of some health issues. Will WILDCAT help?
We made WILDCAT with you in mind. Pain during sex — or dyspareunia — affects millions of people, especially those experiencing hormonal shifts, pelvic floor dysfunction, trauma recovery, or side effects from cancer treatments and medications. In fact, according to Cleveland Clinic, three out of four women experience painful intercourse at some point in their lives.
Here’s how WILDCAT can help:
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THC binds to receptors in the vaginal and vulvar tissue, helping to relax muscles, reduce hypertonicity, and increase comfort
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CBD is a natural anti-inflammatory and may help reduce nerve pain and irritation
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The oil base creates lasting moisture and glide, helping ease friction
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Both THC and CBD can support emotional regulation and help release fear or tension held in the body
Science supports this: a 2022 review in Cannabis and Cannabinoid Research noted cannabis potential to reduce pelvic pain, including in endometriosis and vulvodynia.
So yes — WILDCAT can be a real ally in your healing. And you're not alone.
What kind of THC do you use?
WILDCAT is formulated with:
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5mg THC (per serving)
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10mg CBD (per serving)
We use full-spectrum cannabis from a women-owned, multigenerational farm in upstate New York. Our cannabinoids are extracted with care and rigorously tested for purity and potency — no solvents, no weird stuff.
You get whole-plant power you can trust, infused into an intimate oil that feels as good as it works.
What’s the difference between WILDCAT and your other lubricants?
All of our lubricants are:
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Plant-based + organic
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Non-toxic + body-safe
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Free of glycerin, parabens, or synthetic fragrances
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Designed for vulvas, but safe for all bodies
But WILDCAT is our first THC-infused formula, meaning it delivers all the benefits of our beloved CBD intimacy oil — but with even more sensation, arousal, and relaxation.
Think: the CBD calm with an extra spark of wild.
Will my partner feel it too?
They just might — and they’ll thank you for it.
THC and CBD can affect both partners during intimacy, especially with oral sex or extended skin contact. Many users report enhanced sensitivity, increased warmth, and even better orgasms for their partners too.
Consent, communication, and exploring together are always key. Start slow, apply generously, and let the experience unfold naturally.
Why is it called WILDCAT?
Like all of our Farm to Bedroom™ products, WILDCAT is named after a peak in the Catskill Mountains — Wildcat Mountain. It’s a fierce, beautiful, untamed place that reflects the energy we hope to evoke with this product.
Rooted in nature. Wild in spirit. Elevated in every sense.
How do I use it?
BEFORE INTIMACY
Shake before use.Twist bottle and pump desired amount to your intimate areas about 5-10 minutes before solo or partnered sex. May also be used for oral and anal play.
DURING SEX
A little goes a long way, so you may only need to apply once. If you wish for a more juicy experience, reapply as needed for additional lubrication and stimulation. Partner is optional. Pleasure is not.
Where can I buy WILDCAT?
WILDCAT is launching in licensed dispensaries across New York State. Not seeing it at your local dispensary? Ask for us! Your voice helps us grow.
We’re working on expanding across the state and beyond — so stay tuned!
Final Thoughts
WILDCAT is more than just a THC-infused lubricant — it’s a tool for transformation. It’s a reminder that pleasure is essential, healing is possible, and you’re never too old, too broken, or too complicated to feel good again.
Whether you’re easing into cannabis for the first time or looking to level up your bedroom rituals, WILDCAT is here to help you feel more, fear less, and come home to yourself.
Got more questions?
Drop us a note and check out our website for more info on WILDCAT and our full Farm to Bedroom™ collection.
Your body is worthy. Your pleasure is valid. And your journey is uniquely yours.
ABOUT UPSTATE MARY
Upstate Mary is a women-led sexual wellness brand rooted in the power of plants and the practice of self-care. Our signature Farm to Bedroom™ collection features full-spectrum CBD intimacy oils, suppositories, and sensual self-care essentials made with organic botanicals and sustainably grown cannabis from New York.
Whether you're navigating menopause, postpartum recovery, or simply seeking to enhance intimacy and increase arousal, our body-safe, hormone-friendly formulas are designed to support pleasure, connection, and natural balance at every stage of life.
Explore our collection and rediscover your sensuality—naturally, with Upstate Mary.