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Wildcat Cannabis-Infused Sex Oil
Say hello to Wildcat, the THC-infused sex oil that your pleasure routine has been missing. Treat yourself to a lush blend of cannabis, all-natural + organic botanicals and full-spectrum CBD designed to boost blood flow, heighten sensation and melt away tension—so you can feel everything. Inspired by the untamed beauty of the Catskills, Wildcat invites you to relax, explore, and let pleasure take the lead. Go ahead—give in to the wild.
10mg CBD | 5mg THC per serving
350mg CBD | 175mg THC per bottle
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How to Enjoy
Before Intimacy
Shake before use. Twist bottle and pump desired amount to your intimate areas about 5-10 minutes before solo or partnered sex. May also be used for oral and anal play
During Sex
A little goes a long way, so you may only need to apply once. If you wish for a more juicy experience, reapply as needed for additional lubrication and stimulation. Partner is optional. Pleasure is not.
Ingredients
Cocos Nucifera (MCT Coconut) Oil*, Full Spectrum Cannabis Sativa L. Extract, Ricinus Communis (Castor) Oil*, Simmondsia Chinensis (Golden Jojoba) Oil*, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Theobroma Cacao (Cacao) Absolute, Vanilla Planifolia (Vanilla) Oleoresin, Cinnamomum Verum (Cinnamon) Bark Oil*, Mentha Spicata (Sweet Mint) Oil*
*Certified Organic
Caution
Not for use with latex or poly-isoprene. Oil-based products are not compatible with condoms, diaphragms or toys.
Consult with your physician before use if you are pregnant, breastfeeding or have any gynecological concerns. While Upstate Mary products are safe for intimacy and oral pleasure; they are not intended for consumption.
Allergens: Avoid use if you or your partner are allergic to any ingredients. This product is never tested on animals. No alcohol, petroleum-based ingredients, phthalates, glycerin, parabens, dyes.
Keep out of the reach of children and pets.
Guarantees
Let customers speak for us
FAQs
What is sex oil and how do I use it?
Wildcat is our high-vibe, THC-infused sex oil designed to turn up the volume on pleasure. Formulated with full-spectrum CBD and THC from sun-grown New York cannabis, it works with your body’s endocannabinoid system—a network of receptors that influences stress, pleasure, pain, and inflammation.
When applied topically to intimate areas (i.e. vulva, vagina, penis), Wildcat may support:
• Enhanced sensitivity and arousal
• Increased blood flow
• Relaxation of pelvic muscles
• Relief from discomfort or pain during sex
• Reduced anxiety and inhibition
• A deeper connection to your body and your partner
Shake before use. Twist bottle and pump desired amount to your intimate areas about 5-10 minutes before solo or partnered sex. For best results, massage in and allow a few minutes for the cannabinoids to absorb before intimacy. Safe for oral sex and most toys, but not compatible with latex condoms.
With 350mg CBD and 175mg THC per bottle, everyone can enjoy the benefits of added moisture and glide.
Does your sex oil work on the penis?
Yes, our sex oil can be used on the penis.
While it was formulated with the vagina and vulva in mind, it can still provide moisturizing and friction-reducing benefits. Because cannabis is a natural vasodilator, some users report increased sensitivity or arousal, though effects may vary based on skin type and whether circumcised. Most users report enhanced pleasure when used with a partner.
Are your products free of toxins and chemicals?
Absolutely! We test every ingredient and every batch of our products for purity, potency and the presence of harmful substances. Certificates of Analysis (COAs) for all products and batches are available here.
When do your products expire?
We set a best-by date of 18 months from the date of manufacture for our products. This date can usually be found on the packaging or bottles.
If you cannot find a best-by date on your product(s), please contact us at: hello@upstatemary.com and we will be happy to assist you!
Are your intimacy products safe for oral sex?
The answer is simple, YES!
All of our Intimacy products are made with organic, all-natural and food-grade ingredients. Our products can be an excellent addition to oral sex.
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