5 Ways to Use Arousal Oil (That Aren't Just Sex)
Most people hear the words arousal oil and immediately think of one thing: sex. And yes, that's certainly one way to enjoy it. At Upstate Mary, we've always believed pleasure...




What is sex oil and how do I use it?
Wildcat is our high-vibe, THC-infused sex oil designed to turn up the volume on pleasure. Formulated with full-spectrum CBD and THC from sun-grown New York cannabis, it works with your body’s endocannabinoid system—a network of receptors that influences stress, pleasure, pain, and inflammation.
When applied topically to intimate areas (i.e. vulva, vagina, penis), Wildcat may support:
• Enhanced sensitivity and arousal
• Increased blood flow
• Relaxation of pelvic muscles
• Relief from discomfort or pain during sex
• Reduced anxiety and inhibition
• A deeper connection to your body and your partner
Shake before use. Twist bottle and pump desired amount to your intimate areas about 5-10 minutes before solo or partnered sex. For best results, massage in and allow a few minutes for the cannabinoids to absorb before intimacy. Safe for oral sex and most toys, but not compatible with latex condoms.
With 350mg CBD and 175mg THC per bottle, everyone can enjoy the benefits of added moisture and glide.
Does your sex oil work on the penis?
Yes, our sex oil can be used on the penis.
While it was formulated with the vagina and vulva in mind, it can still provide moisturizing and friction-reducing benefits. Because cannabis is a natural vasodilator, some users report increased sensitivity or arousal, though effects may vary based on skin type and whether circumcised. Most users report enhanced pleasure when used with a partner.
Are your products free of toxins and chemicals?
Absolutely! We test every ingredient and every batch of our products for purity, potency and the presence of harmful substances. Certificates of Analysis (COAs) for all products and batches are available here.
When do your products expire?
We set a best-by date of 18 months from the date of manufacture for our products. This date can usually be found on the packaging or bottles.
If you cannot find a best-by date on your product(s), please contact us at: hello@upstatemary.com and we will be happy to assist you!
Are your intimacy products safe for oral sex?
The answer is simple, YES!
All of our Intimacy products are made with organic, all-natural and food-grade ingredients. Our products can be an excellent addition to oral sex.
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