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Wildcat Cannabis-Infused Sex Oil
Say hello to Wildcat, the THC-infused sex oil that your pleasure routine has been missing.
Wildcat is Upstate Mary's most potent intimacy experience. Wildcat is a full-spectrum cannabis sex oil with 10mg CBD and 5mg THC per serving, blended with the same warming botanicals that make our Friday Arousal Oil legendary.
The result is enhanced sensation, deeper arousal, effortless glide, and a full-body relaxation that makes everything feel more. More present. More connected. More alive.
Inspired by the untamed peaks of the Catskill Mountains. Made for people who want intimacy to feel like an adventure.
Available exclusively at NYS licensed dispensaries. Find a Dispensary Near You →
★ Full-spectrum cannabis · Organic botanicals · Made in New York · 350mg CBD | 175mg THC per bottle
10mg CBD | 5mg THC per serving
350mg CBD | 175mg THC per bottle
Love our products? Ask for us at your favorite NYS Licensed Dispensary.
How to Use
Shake before every use.
Before intimacy: Twist bottle and pump 1–3 pumps onto fingertips. Massage gently onto the inner labia, clitoris, and external vulva. Wait 5–10 minutes for full absorption before intimacy or solo play. The warming and cooling sensation builds as the cannabinoids absorb. This is the signal it's working.
During sex: A little goes a long way. Reapply as needed for additional glide and stimulation. Safe for oral and anal play.
For solo use: Wildcat is equally powerful for solo pleasure. Many customers use it as part of a self-care ritual. Apply, breathe, and allow 10–15 minutes before beginning.
Important: Wildcat is oil-based and is not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms, diaphragms, or silicone toys. Use polyurethane or nitrile condoms if a barrier method is needed.
Not recommended during pregnancy or while breastfeeding without consulting your physician. Keep out of reach of children and pets. For external intimate use. The product is not intended for consumption, though safe for oral play.
Ingredients
Cocos Nucifera (MCT Coconut) Oil*, Full Spectrum Cannabis Sativa L. Extract, Ricinus Communis (Castor) Oil*, Simmondsia Chinensis (Golden Jojoba) Oil*, Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Theobroma Cacao (Cacao) Absolute, Vanilla Planifolia (Vanilla) Oleoresin, Cinnamomum Verum (Cinnamon) Bark Oil*, Mentha Spicata (Sweet Mint) Oil*
*Certified Organic
Caution
Not for use with latex or poly-isoprene. Oil-based products are not compatible with condoms, diaphragms or toys.
Consult with your physician before use if you are pregnant, breastfeeding or have any gynecological concerns. While Upstate Mary products are safe for intimacy and oral pleasure; they are not intended for consumption.
Allergens: Avoid use if you or your partner are allergic to any ingredients. This product is never tested on animals. No alcohol, petroleum-based ingredients, phthalates, glycerin, parabens, dyes.
Keep out of the reach of children and pets.
The product is safe for oral play. Note: Consuming THC orally may produce psychoactive effects and could impact a drug test. Wildcat is designed for topical intimate use, not for ingestion.
How THC Makes Wildcat Different
Both CBD and THC interact with the body's endocannabinoid system, a network of receptors that regulates pleasure, pain, stress, and inflammation. When applied topically to intimate tissue, they work locally, not systemically.
CBD's role: Increases blood flow, relaxes smooth muscle, reduces inflammation, and heightens tactile sensitivity. This is what Friday does and it's why people describe it as waking up.
THC's additional role: THC intimacy oil is designed to heighten sensation and support more comfortable, connected moments. When absorbed through the mucous membranes of the vulva and vagina, THC interacts with CB1 receptors in peripheral nerve tissue amplifying the CBD effect with an additional layer of sensory enhancement, euphoric relaxation, and reduced inhibition.
Both cannabinoids produce similar sensations when applied to the genitals, but THC adds a distinct intensification of pleasure that CBD alone doesn't replicate.
The effect is entirely localized. You will not feel high from topical application. What you will feel: warmth, heightened sensitivity, a relaxation that makes it easier to be fully present and sensation that builds rather than plateaus.
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★ Available at NYS Licensed Dispensaries
Wildcat Cannabis-Infused Sex Oil
Why Wildcat is Different
THC + CBD + botanicals. The full cannabis experience.
| Wildcat ours | CBD-only intimacy oil | Generic cannabis lube | |
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| Full-spectrum CBD | ✓ | ✓ | varies |
| THC (5mg per serving) | ✓ | ✕ | varies |
| Warming + cooling botanicals | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ |
| Contains certified-organic ingredients | ✓ | ✓ | rarely |
| Sun-grown New York cannabis | ✓ | ✕ | rarely |
| Glycerin, paraben & dye free | ✓ | ✓ | often not |
| NYS regulated & lab-tested | ✓ | varies | varies |
| Small-batch, NY-made | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ |
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Who Wildcat Is For?
- Cannabis consumers who want their intimacy products to match their wellness philosophy; clean, plant-based, and actually potent.
- Couples looking for something new. Wildcat is a shared experience and applying it together is part of the ritual.
- Women navigating menopause who want the additional sensation amplification that THC provides alongside CBD's blood flow benefits.
- Anyone who tried Friday and wants to know what more feels like.
- People with pelvic tension or anxiety around sex. THC's muscle-relaxing and inhibition-reducing properties, delivered locally, can make intimacy feel safer and more accessible.
- New Yorkers. Wildcat is a New York cannabis product. Grown in New York and made in New York, it's available at your local licensed dispensary.
Wildcat is a regulated New York State cannabis product and is not available for direct online purchase. It is carried at licensed adult-use and medical dispensaries across New York State.
Don't see Wildcat at your local dispensary? Ask for it by name or contact us at hello@upstatemary.com and we'll help you find the closest location that carries it.
Are you a dispensary buyer or wholesale partner?
What's Inside? Every Ingredient, Explained.
Wildcat shares the same botanical formula as Friday Arousal Oil because that formula is already exceptional. The difference is what powers it: full-spectrum cannabis extract with meaningful THC.
Certified-Organic MCT Coconut Oil
Certified organic. The lightweight, antimicrobial carrier base. Creates effortless glide without greasiness. Deeply moisturizing for vaginal and vulvar tissue.
Full-Spectrum Cannabis Sativa L. Extract
The heart of Wildcat. Sun-grown New York cannabis, full-spectrum; meaning CBD, THC, CBG, terpenes, and the complete range of plant compounds that work together through the entourage effect.
10mg CBD | 5mg THC per serving.
350mg CBD | 175mg THC per bottle.
Castor Oil
Certified organic. Rich in ricinoleic acid, which promotes local circulation and adds lasting slip and staying power to the formula.
Jojoba Oil
Certified organic. Mimics the skin's own sebum. Deeply conditioning, non-comedogenic, and ideal for sensitive intimate tissue.
Vitamin E
Supports vaginal tissue elasticity and skin health, especially beneficial for postmenopausal tissue and anyone experiencing dryness.
Cacao Absolute
Beyond its rich, warm scent, cacao contains phenylethylamine (PEA), a compound associated with feelings of arousal and excitement that engages the brain's limbic pleasure center.
Vanilla
A grounding, sensory-rich extract that promotes relaxation and presence; the quiet signal to your nervous system that it's safe to feel everything.
Cinnamon
Certified organic. A mild vasodilator that creates Wildcat's signature warming sensation. Increases local blood flow and activates nerve receptors for heightened tactile sensitivity.
Sweet Mint
Certified organic. The cooling counterpoint to cinnamon. Activates TRPM8 cooling receptors, creating the tingle that follows the warmth. Together with cinnamon, it produces the layered sensation that makes Wildcat unmistakable.
Guarantees
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FAQs
Can I use Wildcat with other products?
Wildcat pairs well with:
- Friday Arousal Oil Start with Friday as your everyday arousal oil. Reach for Wildcat when you want the full cannabis experience.
- Slide Intimacy Oil Wildcat for arousal and sensation, Slide for sustained glide and external moisture.
- Hunter Intimacy Melts Wildcat externally, Hunter internally, the complete intimacy system for maximum effect.
I'm a NYS-licensed dispensary Owner. how do I carry Wildcat?
We'd love to work with you. Wildcat is available to licensed New York State dispensaries through our wholesale program. Contact us at hello@upstatemary.com or learn more about stocking Upstate Mary products.
Can Wildcat be used with condoms or sex toys?
Wildcat is oil-based and is not compatible with latex or polyisoprene condoms, diaphragms, or silicone toys. If using a barrier method, choose polyurethane or nitrile condoms which are oil-safe. Wildcat is compatible with glass, metal, and hard plastic toys.
Is Wildcat safe for oral sex?
Yes. Every ingredient in Wildcat, including the cannabis extract is organic and food-grade. The product is safe for oral play. Note: Consuming THC orally may produce psychoactive effects and could impact a drug test. Wildcat is designed for topical intimate use, not for ingestion.
Can I use Wildcat for pelvic pain or menopause?
Yes. Wildcat's combination of THC and CBD provides the same benefits as Friday Arousal Oil; increased blood flow, muscle relaxation, enhanced lubrication with the additional muscle-relaxing and pain-modulating effects of THC. Many women navigating menopause, pelvic floor tension, or discomfort during sex find the THC component provides relief beyond what CBD alone achieves. If you prefer a product available without a dispensary visit, Hunter Intimacy Melts (CBD suppository) and Friday Arousal Oil (CBD topical) are available directly at upstatemary.com.
What is THC sex oil and how is it different from CBD sex oil?
THC sex oil is a topical intimacy product infused with THC, the primary psychoactive cannabinoid in cannabis. Our THC sex oil also contains CBD and botanical ingredients. Applied externally to the vulva, clitoris, and inner labia, it absorbs through the skin and mucous membranes to work locally on the surrounding tissue. The key difference from CBD sex oil is that THC adds an additional layer of sensory enhancement for deeper relaxation, reduced inhibition, and amplified pleasure that CBD alone doesn't replicate. Both increase blood flow and muscle relaxation; THC intensifies the overall sensory experience. Wildcat contains 5mg THC and 10mg CBD per serving, along with warming cinnamon and cooling mint botanicals.
Will Wildcat get me high?
No. When THC is applied topically to genital tissue, it interacts with local cannabinoid receptors in the skin and mucous membranes. It does not enter the bloodstream in significant amounts. You will not experience a psychoactive high. The effect is entirely localized; heightened sensitivity, warmth, muscle relaxation, and enhanced sensation where you apply it. This is fundamentally different from consuming THC by smoking, vaping, or consuming edibles.
Where can I buy Wildcat?
Wildcat is a New York State regulated cannabis product available exclusively at licensed adult-use and medical dispensaries across New York. It is not available for online purchase or direct shipping. Use our store locator to find the nearest dispensary that carries it. If your local dispensary doesn't stock it yet, ask for it by name or email us at hello@upstatemary.com and we'll help you find it.
How is Wildcat different from Friday Arousal Oil?
Both Wildcat and Friday Arousal Oil share the same organic botanical formula; MCT coconut oil, castor oil, jojoba oil, cacao, vanilla, cinnamon, and sweet mint. The difference is what powers them. Friday uses full-spectrum CBD hemp extract (0.3% THC or below). Wildcat uses full-spectrum cannabis extract with 5mg THC per serving — a meaningful, regulated dose that amplifies the CBD effect with additional sensory enhancement, relaxation, and pleasure intensification. Friday is available online at upstatemary.com. Wildcat is available at NYS licensed dispensaries only.
How much THC is in Wildcat and is it safe?
Each serving of Wildcat contains 5mg THC and 10mg CBD. Each bottle contains 175mg THC and 350mg CBD total. When used topically, these amounts are safe and well-tolerated. The THC does not enter the bloodstream in psychoactive quantities. Every batch is independently lab tested for potency, purity, pesticides, and heavy metals, and complies with New York State Office of Cannabis Management (OCM) regulations. Certificates of Analysis are available.
What is sex oil and how do I use it?
Wildcat is our high-vibe, THC-infused sex oil designed to turn up the volume on pleasure. Formulated with full-spectrum CBD and THC from sun-grown New York cannabis, it works with your body’s endocannabinoid system—a network of receptors that influences stress, pleasure, pain, and inflammation.
When applied topically to intimate areas (i.e. vulva, vagina, penis), Wildcat may support:
• Enhanced sensitivity and arousal
• Increased blood flow
• Relaxation of pelvic muscles
• Relief from discomfort or pain during sex
• Reduced anxiety and inhibition
• A deeper connection to your body and your partner
Shake before use. Twist bottle and pump desired amount to your intimate areas about 5-10 minutes before solo or partnered sex. For best results, massage in and allow a few minutes for the cannabinoids to absorb before intimacy. Safe for oral sex and most toys, but not compatible with latex condoms.
With 350mg CBD and 175mg THC per bottle, everyone can enjoy the benefits of added moisture and glide.
Are your products free of toxins and chemicals?
Absolutely! We test every ingredient and every batch of our products for purity, potency and the presence of harmful substances. Certificates of Analysis (COAs) for all products and batches are available here.
When do your products expire?
We set a best-by date of 18 months from the date of manufacture for our products. This date can usually be found on the packaging or bottles.
If you cannot find a best-by date on your product(s), please contact us at: hello@upstatemary.com and we will be happy to assist you!
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