As we welcome peak summer weeks, you and your partner may be longing for some alone time to reconnect. If you need a good reason to start planning, traveling with your partner may actually be good for your psychological health. According to a survey examining the romantic rituals of 2,000 married Americans, it found that 82% believe going on a romantic vacation with their partner can reignite the spark in their relationship. Whether you’re planning a week on the beach, a quick lakeside escape, or a full-on European road trip, some sexy accessories are essential to some quality time together. So to help you out, we put together a list of some naughty items to slip into your suitcase and ensure a spicy summer vacation.
A Sultry Candle (and a Sexy Spray, Too)
First things first: set the mood. First things first, you have to set the mood. Studies have shown that scent can be a powerful seduction tool. While a spritz of perfume can absolutely turn heads, there’s something about the soft flicker of candlelight and a warm, enveloping fragrance that instantly shifts the energy.
Our go-to? Keap’s Wood Cabin—a woodsy, grounding scent with notes of cedar, palo santo, and fireside embers. It’s cozy, sensual, and perfect for transforming any space into a sexy sanctuary.
Want to take it up a notch? We also love the sexy room and linen sprays from Catskills Candle Studio. Their sultry soy candles and seductive scent blends (made locally in the Catskills) are pure vibe-setters. Whether you’re spritzing the sheets or lighting a flame, these little luxuries go a long way.
Some Sexy Lingerie
Clothing is optional. But if you want to add a little drama (or just feel drop-dead gorgeous while lounging), lingerie is the way to go. We love a sheer teddy, silky robe, or anything that makes you feel like your most confident, playful self. If you want to add some oh-la-la to your ensemble, we love a lacy teddy for lounging like this one, and maybe even some lace for him, too.
For curated, body-positive styles in the heart of Woodstock, check out The Red Foxxx. Their selection of desirable underthings is equal parts sultry and empowering.
For something a bit more daring, browse the effortlessly luxe designs from Fleur du Mal or the unapologetically bold styles from Thistle and Spire. These brands are redefining lingerie not just as something you wear—but as something you embody.
Extra Juicy Lube
Don’t leave home without this one. Lube is essential to maximizing comfort and pleasure, and our favorite formulas do more than reduce friction—they enhance sensation and deepen connection.
Friday Arousal Oil is a must-pack. Infused with full-spectrum CBD and a bouquet of natural botanicals, this oil promotes relaxation, increases blood flow, and awakens your most sensitive spots. Hot tip: Friday also comes in a mini size, perfectly packable and TSA-friendly.
Craving even more? Wildcat Sex Oil blends luscious oils with THC to help you relax into your body, ease tension, and experience everything more intensely. Whether it’s a quiet night in or a playful weekend away, these oils help you fully embrace the moment.
A Naughty Game
Sometimes a little play is the best kind of foreplay. Sexy games can help break the ice, encourage exploration, and spark meaningful connection—especially in new environments.
Try a cheeky round of Never Have I Ever, or a few prompts from Let’s Get Closer —a beautifully designed card deck made to deepen intimacy and spark real conversations.
For a more mindful approach, we’re loving Wonderlust—an intimacy card deck that blends playfulness with presence. With questions and exercises designed to explore your desires and foster emotional closeness, it’s a gentle but powerful tool for couples looking to reconnect, no pressure required.
Massage oil
Build some heat with a sexy massage! In case you need some tips to get started, we have plenty. But one thing you’ll definitely want to have on hand is massage oil. We really like Slide Intimacy Oil because it’s so simple with just two ingredients, certified-organic MCT coconut oil + CBD goodness. This oil can also double as an all-over moisturizer and of course is a must for your most intimate moments.
Desirable reading
Getting in the mood is easy when you’re reading all about maximizing your pleasure. That’s why we recommend Dr. Emily Morse’s book, Smart Sex. You’ll learn all about the five pillars of sexual intelligence and how to really feel satisfied in your sex life.
Little leather accessories
Cuffs, paddles, whips, a leash, handcuffs… if there’s a fetish, there’s a luxe little leather accessory to go along with it. Talk to your partner to find out what they are into and comfortable with in the bedroom. Keeping an open dialogue about what turns you both on is the best way to keep things spicy. Once you agree on something, pack it up for your time away!
Ready to Pack Your Pleasure?
No matter where you're headed, these sexy essentials help you feel good in your skin, drop into the moment, and reconnect with yourself or your partner. We highly recommend a Catskills excursion; climb the high peaks (the inspiration for our oils’ names!) and experience peak pleasure at the same time. After all, pleasure isn’t just a destination—it’s part of the journey.
Got a favorite product or brand you never travel without? Tell us in the comments—we’re always down to discover something.
ABOUT UPSTATE MARY
Upstate Mary is a women-led sexual wellness brand rooted in the power of plants and the practice of self-care. Our signature Farm to Bedroom™ collection features full-spectrum CBD intimacy oils, suppositories, and sensual self-care essentials made with organic botanicals and sustainably grown cannabis from New York.
Whether you're navigating menopause, postpartum recovery, or simply seeking to enhance intimacy and increase arousal, our body-safe, hormone-friendly formulas are designed to support pleasure, connection, and natural balance at every stage of life.
Explore our collection and rediscover your sensuality—naturally, with Upstate Mary.